Words of nonsensical advice.

"You're caring, loving and beautiful..." one of the many things he has said to me. He does not make my stomach flutter, he has never made my stomach flutter. This is a good thing. In all the relationships I have been in, I have realized that whenever a male makes your stomach feel like a new home for butterflies, it is not a good thing. A repeating cycle of that is not heart string pluckiness, it is a warning to run. Far away. Hastily.  

Three to four years of commitment takes a good, large toll on the heart. Things have been complicated from time to time but it is quite alright. What is a relationship without a few arguments and disagreements? It is not a healthy relationship at all, it is a relationship filled with cotton candy trees, gold wrapper covered chocolate brick roads, and sugar coated streams. A location of non-existence. Arguments make the love stronger, especially after the make-up session. Love your partner...despite the good or the bad. Marriage or dating...Be committed. It pays off immensely. When things get rocky, stick it through. 

Things will get better if you just fight for them. Just make sure you are not the only one fighting for something...

💔 Bella Beba